Working up the courage to ask someone out can be a difficult task for anyone. Once you have worked up the courage and asked someone out most people would think the hard part is over. You still however, have a long way to go. Now that you have a first date, how can you make sure that there will be a second one? You would have gone through all that trouble for nothing if he or she just nods the whole time and you never hear from them again. People are a lot more nervous and less likely to act like themselves on a first date so it’s essential that you can get a second one. Read on below for some tips on how to get a second date.
Be Nice to Others
Be nice to the people you come in contact with. Don’t leave a bad tip or get unnecessarily angry at others. The way you treat others is how your date is going to think you will treat them. Being needlessly rude to anyone will ruin your chances for a second date.
Ask Them Questions
No one likes conversations that lead nowhere. Avoid asking them questions that will end up with a simple yes or no response. Instead ask questions that will get them engaged in the conversation and have them asking you questions as well. Make a mental list of topics if you think it will help you. For topic ideas check out my other post First Date Conversation Topics.
Pay The Bill
For guys, when the time comes offer to pay. Most likely she will decline but making a sincere effort to pay is usually good enough. Don’t be overly persistent, if she doesn’t want you to pay after you’ve made a sincere effort offer to split the bill.
Follow The 2 Day Rule
After your date, don’t contact them for two days. If you contact them any sooner you are only going to come across as desperate. Any later and you will come across as not interested. A simple “hey I had fun the other night” should be good enough.
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