How To Hold Her Attention

Although most men would say getting up the nerve to walk up and talk to a woman is their biggest fear, what happens after should be what you are concerned about. After a few reassuring looks and signs, everyone can work up the courage to walk up to a woman and say hi, it’s going to require a lot more to hold her attention. Do you know what to do? How about which topics to avoid? Help on both of these can be found on my other posts First Conversation Mistakes and Picking Up Women (Do’s and Don’ts). Read on below to find out some of the best ways to hold a woman’s attention.

Conversational Spot

If you’ve successfully grabbed her interest, the first thing you need to do is find a good spot to talk to her. Lead her to a place where the two of you can talk more comfortably, she will be more likely to agree if she actually wants to know more about you. Holding a woman’s attention requires leaving crowds and loud music, it shows that you enjoy speaking to her.

Eye Contact

You shouldn’t have to continuously stare into her eyes, in fact that’s something you should avoid doing. Instead make sure to meet her gaze on a continuous basis. Eye contact has a lot to do with confidence and confidence is one trait women look for. Other traits can be found on Qualities Women Want In A Man.

Ask Continuing Questions

Don’t just ask her yes or no questions. You are trying to get her involved in the conversation. Ask her opinions on things. If she tells you what her job is then ask her a specific question about that. If you are doing it correctly she should end up talking more than you do, and that’s exactly what you want.

Focus On A Topic Of Her Choice

Don’t just go on and on about whatever you want leaving her just sitting there nodding her head. If she mentions something and seems particularly interested in it then focus on that. If she brought it up, how can she be bored with it?

Be Attentive

Pay attention to what she is saying. Find a way to bring it up later on to show her you were listening. If she makes a joke you think is funny or agrees with you on anything, make an effort to build on that compatibility.