How To Let Him Know You Are Interested

Ever tried telling a guy you’re interested? Not so easy is it. Luckily, you might not have to say anything at all. Learning how to use body language and using it properly should be more than enough to help you get your point across. Below are a few things you can do to help you show him your interested non-verbally.

Eye Contact

Usually the first way people connect is through eye contact. Make eye contact and hold your gaze just a few seconds longer than you normally would then look away. Look back to see if he is still looking at you. If he is, he’s most likely showing some mutual attraction.

Arms Crossed

Don’t cross your arms. Crossing your arms is like putting a barrier in between the two of you. You want to seem approachable and not like your trying to put distance between you two so keep them uncrossed.

Get Close

If you want a guy to hit on you, get close to help make it happen. Don’t hang out in a large group of girls or sit together huddled in a corner with your backs to everyone. You don’t have to walk right up to him but do try to close the gap between you two a little.

Touching

Once you’ve closed the physical gap and started talking, be sure to invade his personal space by gently touching him in a non sexual way. Gently touch his arm when you laugh at one of his jokes or take him by the hand if you two are moving through a crowd.

Make the First Move

It might seem silly but this is one of the best ways to let a guy know you’re into him. Most guys are shy or have a fear of rejection so only those who are able to muster up some confidence will approach you. In today’s society it’s perfectly acceptable for a woman to approach a man, so if you catch him making eye contact and smiling at you feel free to walk up and introduce yourself.