Relationship Problems And Solving Strategies

Sooner or later every couple is going to have an argument. The more prepared you are on what these arguments could be about the more likely you are to get through without anyone getting hurt. Here are some common issues and ways to resolve them.

Problem: Communication

Argument Strategies

Make time to discuss things with no distractions

Don’t raise your voice

Set up some rules (no yelling, no interrupting, etc.)

Remember that a key part of communication is listening

Problem: Money

Argument Strategies

Be honest about your financial situation

Don’t hide income or debt

Construct a joint budget

Allow independence by having each person set aside a little to spend as they want

Problem: Household chores

Argument Strategies

Be organized about who is doing what

Spread the work evenly

Be open to compromise

Problem: Not prioritizing your relationship

Argument Strategies

Plan date nights

Respect one another

Set aside time to communicate

Problem: Trust

Argument Strategies

Do what you say you will

Don’t lie

Be fair

Call when you say you will

Notify them of any changes (working late, unexpected stops, etc.)