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Thursday, November 15, 2012

Dating Multiple Women (or Men)

This might be a controversial topic for some but it is one that I have received several emails about. I'd like to start this post off by saying that in my opinion you should never date more than one woman at a time unless they both know you two aren't exclusive yet. No one likes getting cheated on or getting their feelings hurt so if you plan on going out with someone else it's best to just end it and save them the heartache. Now, for those who are interested in dating several women at once and being able to successfully pull it off, there are a few rules to keep in mind. Although this post is aimed towards men, the same rules would apply if you were a woman trying to date multiple men.

Pet Names

Refer to them by pet names you make up for them. Using cute nicknames will have you come across as sweet while in reality your just preventing a possible name mix-up.

Don't Invite them to your place

If a woman knows where you live there is a possibility she might show up unexpectedly. Keep your dates to nights out or at her place. Same rule applies to your job.

Have a set schedule

If you are dating 2 women, you might tell woman A that you are free on Mondays and Fridays and woman B that you are available on Tuesdays and Thursdays. This way you don't have to worry about explaining why you can't spend time with them on certain days all the time.

Different date locations

When you go out on a date, try to avoid going to the exact same places with every woman. Doing this not only increases your chances of running into someone you know, but the people who work there making a comment about another girlfriend of yours.

Separate phones

If you are really paranoid, it's a good idea to keep several phones available so you don't have to worry about them finding anything on your phone.

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