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Thursday, November 22, 2012

She Is Friends With Her Ex-Boyfriend

So you’ve started dating a new girl and things couldn’t be better. But there is one problem: she is best friends with her ex-boyfriend. Most men wouldn’t want to deal with their girlfriend having guy friends let alone being best friends with someone she went out and possibly slept with. If you find yourself in this situation, there are only 2 options you can choose from.


Befriend Him

Now you don’t necessarily have to become his friend, but do get to know him. Go out with him and your girlfriend and watch how they act around each other. If there is no sexual chemistry, then you can probably consider him an ex she’s “just friends “with. Be sure to keep an eye on them individually, just because she might not have any feelings for him doesn’t necessarily mean he doesn’t for her.

Bring It Up With Her

If this is an issue for you, it should be something you bring up with her right from the start. If she is not willing to consider your feelings or make any changes, she’s probably not the girl for you. Dealing with a woman who has an ex in her life takes a lot of awareness and maturity. If it seems like she is still not over him or their relationship, then your new relationship isn’t going anywhere and your best just ending it and moving on.

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