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Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Multiple Sex Partners

So you met a man or woman you really like and the sex is great. You two hang out all the time and are really hitting it off. The problem is you just don’t feel like you can fully commit right now. Maybe you just got out of a relationship and are dating at the moment and want to be careful before jumping into your next one. Whatever your reason, as long as you are honest with yourself and what this person means to you, you can successfully have multiple sex partners if you play your cards right.


Don’t Mislead Them

Don’t ever lie or avoid the question. Never make them think you two are exclusive or that there is something more. If they ask always be honest and tell them you just can’t be exclusive right now.

Give Them a Choice

You have to always be fair and let them know where you stand. Tell each person that you are also sleeping with someone else and are not into being exclusive right now but you do enjoy your time together. This gives them the choice of looking for someone else if they choose to do so.

Remember The Differences

It’s essential you remember the differences between all the men or women you are with. You don’t want to have a deep conversation or a special moment and forget who it was with. The time you share with each person has meaning to them so know your limits. If you don’t think you can handle it, don’t go for it.

Keep Track of Each Partner

Keep track of where you are in each relationship. As you get to know each person eventually you will end up liking one of them more than the rest. You never know how things are going to play out so you want to value your time with each person and make the time unique.

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