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Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Top Ten Things You Should Never Say To a Guy

Have you ever seen your guy’s expression change in a flash? You most likely said something you probably shouldn’t have. Guys in general are fairly easy going and can put up with a lot of stuff including insults and let downs. Every now and then though you may let something slip that’s going to hurt him a lot more than you might think. You can tease a guy but never make him feel like less of a man. If anything bothers men it is realizing that the girl he likes thinks he isn’t man enough. Down below is a list of top 10 things you should never say to a guy. Note that these aren’t numbered in any specific order.

1. You are so insecure

He might feel insecure especially if you are a good looking girl, but that doesn’t mean he wants to hear about it. 

2. You are so immature

More than likely he is going to dislike you for always behaving like his mother and treating him like a child.

3. No I will do it myself

Guys like to offer help to feel important. If you reject him every time he tries to help he might assume that you think he isn’t capable of doing anything important.

4. I have dated better guys

This one shouldn’t really need an explanation. Just know that if you say it, your relationship most likely won’t last long after that.

5. Can you introduce me to that guy?

Unless it’s a celebrity he knows, it’s best to refrain from saying it for obvious reasons.

6. Why don’t you accept that you can’t do it?

Men don’t like to fail. The fact that YOU think he can’t do something is going to make the situation worse.

7. My ex did it why can’t you?

Never use the word ex around your boyfriend unless you are complimenting him. Guys don’t like to be compared to other guys.
 
8. Your friend is so charming

If you feel that way it’s something you should keep to yourself, especially if it’s something you haven’t complimented your boyfriend about.

9. What is wrong with you?

Don’t ever yell at him or put him down in front of his friends or family. That never tends to go over well.

10. We need to talk

If you need to talk, say it in another way. Saying “we need to talk” will instantly put him on the defensive.

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