Playing Hard To Get

We all want what we can’t have. For some this comes from jealousy, others from an allure of the unattainable. Whatever the reason, someone has something, and you want it. The same is true when it comes to relationships. Have you ever heard the saying that married men seem to get hit on a lot more than when they were single? These guys didn’t instantly become more physically attractive once they got married or involved in a relationship, it’s the fact that they now seem unattainable that becomes a great attraction builder. Playing hard to get works in a similar fashion. The reason why this works is because you show interest in the person, but then take it away. Man or woman, doing this will leave the other person wondering what's going on and help build attraction. The few tips below should be a good guide line to get you started.

Don’t make them the center of attention
 
Don’t answer their calls or texts immediately

Don’t always agree or give in easily

Don’t seem too eager to speak or see the person
 
Don't always go out when they ask, instead suggest plans at another time
 
When playing hard to get keep in mind that you are not totally trying to ignore or avoid the person. The key is to not be all over them, make them chase after you instead. Little things like not answering a call or text right away can drive some people crazy with jealousy about what you might be doing, especially if they like you. Think about how you feel when you really like someone but they don't answer their phone. You immediately start thinking about who they are with and what they are doing, and if your the jealous type, you will try harder to get that person. This is what you are trying to make him or her do with you.